SOMATICA METHOD® LOVE + INTIMACY COACHING
WITH PATRICIA AHUMADA
TRAININGS
Somatica Method ® Trained Sex & Relationship Coach
Reiki Level III
As a Somatica Method ® trained sex and relationship coach, Patricia guides clients through their inner awareness and healing journeys, helping them embrace joy and pleasure by addressing what holds them back from becoming their truest selves.
Patricia is no stranger to life's challenges, having experienced early abandonment, sexual abuse, and bullying. She understands how these experiences can impact relationships, leading to crossed boundaries, suppressed needs, and self-protective walls. Despite these traumas, Patricia has always felt deeply connected to her sensuality and sexuality, which has been a source of liberation and confidence.
Over the past 35 years, Patricia has transformed her trauma into gifts through talk therapy, plant medicines, Reiki, inner child work, and Somatica Method training. This journey enables her to guide others in reclaiming agency over their bodies and fully embracing their capacity for pleasure. With empathy and respect for everyone's boundaries, Patricia honors the unique beauty of each individual. With a cis-female/femme perspective and a bisexual identity, she also celebrates the profound beauty of masculinity and queerness in all its forms.
SESSIONS WITH PATRICIA
Rooted in emotional and erotic connection, the Somatica Method ® combines talk-based coaching with experiential practices to help clients expand their skills and beliefs around intimacy. This process is the key to changing your existing habits, uncovering your true self, and unlocking a more fulfilling sex life and deeper relationships.
It takes more than traditional talk-based therapy to unlearn the sexual or relational patterns we’ve picked up throughout our lives. To incite lasting change, you have to identify and shift habitual behaviors. The Somatica Method facilitates this through an experiential, embodied process, which is more effective than simply using cognitive learning techniques.
First and foremost, it’s important to understand that sex coaching does not involve sex. As a practitioner, Patricia ensures that in-person sessions always remain fully clothed, however experiential coaching may include hands-on methods to teach sexual skills within legal boundaries. Patricia uses the Somatica Method ® to guide clients in practicing various types of touch and building connections.
Transformation can be driven by pleasure rather than pain. She fosters growth through joyful, connected practices, helping clients learn emotional and erotic intimacy, even after trauma. Central to her approach is working with the inner child, recognizing how past experiences shape current patterns, and using real-time interactions to nurture authentic intimacy. Additionally, Patricia incorporates Reiki energy work on a case-by-case basis, when she feels it would be beneficial.
Being in love isn't just about loving others—it’s also about loving yourself. As a practitioner, Patricia emphasizes the importance of self-love, guiding clients to discover themselves as erotic beings and experience daily joy. She honors each person's uniqueness, helping them find balance between togetherness and individuality. Patricia creates a safe, non-judgmental space where clients can learn intimacy tools, empowering them to expand their capacity for pleasure, deepen self-love, and transform their lives. She believes that each client has the power to heal themselves and is honored to witness their journey.
LOVE IS NOT LOVE
UNTIL IT’S VULNERABLE.
Theodore Roethke